How to decline a job offer politely

Turning down a job offer is a normal part of a career, and done well it leaves a good impression. The recipe is short: reply promptly, be clear, be grateful, and keep the door open. Below are the steps and 6 templates for email and phone.

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Five steps to a professional decline

1. Decide, then reply soon. Once you know, tell them within a day or two. The company may have other candidates waiting.
2. Write to the right person. Usually the recruiter or hiring manager who made the offer, addressed by name.
3. Thank them sincerely. Mention something specific: the team, the conversation, the process.
4. Say no clearly. "I have decided to decline the offer." Avoid wording that sounds like a negotiation unless you mean it.
5. Keep it short and leave the door open. One neutral reason at most, and a line about staying in touch if you would like to.

What to say about your reason

• Another offer: "I have accepted a position that is a closer match for my current goals."
• Fit: "After careful thought, it is not the right fit for me at this time."
• Personal circumstances: "Due to personal circumstances, I am not able to accept."
• No reason: perfectly acceptable. A gracious "I have decided to decline" is complete.

Avoid criticising the company, the salary or the people. If pay was the issue and you would reconsider at a different level, say so plainly instead of declining.

Templates

Simple email (no reason)

Subject: Job offer, [your name]

Dear [name],

Thank you very much for offering me the [job title] role. I appreciate the time you and the team spent with me during the process.

After careful thought, I have decided to decline the offer. It was not an easy decision.

Thank you again, and I wish you and the team every success.

Kind regards,
[your name]

You accepted another offer

Subject: [Job title] offer, [your name]

Dear [name],

Thank you for the offer for the [job title] position. I truly enjoyed learning about [company] and meeting the team.

I have accepted another position that is a closer match for my current goals, so I must respectfully decline.

I hope we will have the chance to work together in the future.

Best regards,
[your name]

The role is not the right fit

Subject: [Job title] offer

Dear [name],

Thank you for offering me the [job title] role. After thinking it over, I have decided it is not the right fit for me at this time, and I will be declining.

I appreciate your openness throughout the process, and I would be glad to stay in touch.

Warm regards,
[your name]

You want to stay in touch

Subject: Thank you, [your name]

Dear [name],

Thank you for the offer and for a very positive process. I have decided to decline this role, but I have a lot of respect for what [company] is building.

If a role in [area] opens in the future, I would love to hear about it. May I connect with you on LinkedIn?

All the best,
[your name]

After you already accepted

Subject: [Job title] role, [your name]

Dear [name],

I am writing to let you know that I can no longer join [company] as [job title]. [One short, honest reason.] I wanted to tell you as early as possible.

I am sorry for the inconvenience this causes, and I am grateful for the offer and your support.

Sincerely,
[your name]

Phone call (what to say)

Hi [name], thank you for taking my call. I wanted to tell you personally that I've decided to decline the offer for the [job title] role. I really appreciated meeting the team, and it was a hard decision. I'll send a short email as well so you have it in writing. Thank you again for everything.

What to avoid

• Going silent. Ignoring an offer is the one decline that harms your reputation.
• Long explanations. They invite counter-offers and debate you may not want.
• Negative comments about the role, the people or the process, even if true.
• Bluffing. Do not claim another offer you do not have.
• Waiting until the last day. Early answers are the professional ones.

Saying no in other situations

For turning down an interview, a meeting or an event, see how to decline an invitation politely. For requests from your manager or clients, see how to say no to extra work and polite ways to say no. Every guide is on the guides page.

Questions about declining a job offer

How do you politely decline a job offer?

Reply quickly, thank the person by name, say clearly that you are declining, give a short reason if you want, and keep the door open: "Thank you for the offer. After careful thought, I have decided to decline. I enjoyed meeting the team and hope our paths cross again."

Should I decline a job offer by email or phone?

Either is fine. A phone call is warmer if you had a close relationship with the recruiter or hiring manager; follow it with a short email so there is a written record. For most offers, a clear, kind email is enough.

Do I have to give a reason?

No. "It is not the right fit for me at this time" is enough. If you do give a reason, keep it short and neutral, such as another offer that better fits your goals.

Can I decline after accepting an offer?

Yes, though it should be rare and done as early as possible. Call or email the hiring manager directly, apologise once, explain briefly, and thank them. Do not simply stop replying.

Will declining hurt my chances in the future?

Not if you decline promptly and professionally. Companies understand that candidates have choices. A gracious reply is often remembered well.

See also: how to decline a job interview and how to respond to a job rejection email.

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